With Love there is Always a Fear of Hate

That was a saying someone had told me when I was really young. At first I didn't understand what they meant, but as I grew older I began to get the idea. To me, that saying answers many of the pointless questions people ask. 
When I talk to people, I am always looking for a sense of passion. I love seeing how people get lost in a dream or a hobby. It's almost as if they disappear and become one with whatever they care so much for. Through time I see that there is no passion that surpasses loved ones. Everyday, I hear about how a certain person or a group of people have saved someone from themselves. Looking around I saw that everyone had that one person that they'd be prepared to die for. Then I got to thinking, what happens when that one person disappears forever? What if they are taken by an illness or by someone else's evil intentions? When I ask people this, their reactions to that is full of sorrow and violence. I've gotten a range of people saying that they would have to kill themselves, take revenge, or some other form of action. I have gotten few answers retaining to moving on and dealing with it. Those who were uncertain were lying. I could tell by the look in their eyes that they knew the answer but were unsure if they should say "the right thing" against the "wrong thing." 
While pondering this topic the first thing that popped into my mind was war. People fight for what they love. While on the battlefield you carry with you the thing you want to protect, so you try to eliminate the ones who are trying to take that thing away. While sitting at home, you hear that your loved one was killed, then the one you tried to protect disappears and so you are left with a choice. Move on or fight. Now you carry that tiny piece of hatred and take to war. It's an endless cycle. Everyone has a motive whether they choose to admit it or not. War will never end as long as people have the ability to love and contain the passion and determination to keep it the way they want it. As I crossed that conclusion, I figured out where chaos comes from. Something so innocent and gorgeous grows into pure evil without anyone even realizing it. I understand that this is not always the case. But as you all know, "nothing gold can stay."
Now I want to know your opinions on this matter. What does that quote say to you? What would you do if the one most precious to you were taken away? Is your answer the "right thing to say" or your actual feelings? This is probably a dark way to end the year, but it's just what was on my mind at the moment.


P.S How do get a step dad who thinks he's a handy man to stop messing around with the internet so you could use it for school? Goodness.....